DUBIELEW
With immense sadness in our hearts, we share the passing of the beautiful Brenda Lee Dubielew (née Craig) of Hoadley, Alberta. She passed away at the Rimbey Hospital and Care Centre on Wednesday, October 9, 2024, at the age of 64 years. Brenda gave so much love to everyone she met, and she was surrounded by that same love as she left us. She was often considered a second mom to many. If you had the privilege of being in her presence and experiencing her love, you were one of the lucky ones.
Brenda was born on September 11, 1960 in Calgary, Alberta. She moved to Rimbey 4–5 years after her parents, Daird and Pat Craig, relocated to the area. It was in Rimbey where Brenda met the love of her life, Perry Dubielew. Together they built a beautiful life and raised four amazing children. This year they celebrated 41 years of marriage.
Brenda’s purpose in life was her family. She gave everything in her heart to her husband and children Josh, Joelle, Jennah, and Jelayne. She was beyond proud of each of them; and because of her, they are who they are today. From attending every sports game, to modeling for zombie make-up, sewing everything she was asked to create, babysitting, or being a shoulder to cry on – Brenda gave her heart to her family. Her love extended not only to her immediate family, but also to her parents, siblings, in-laws, nieces, nephews, and friends. When her grandchildren arrived, Brenda wrapped them in unconditional love, as she did with everyone around her. She never asked for anything in return; just knowing she could brighten someone’s day filled her heart with joy. Her selflessness is beyond words.
Brenda and Perry created a life filled with love and countless cherished memories. Through life’s ups and downs, they endured – inspiring their children and grandchildren with their love. Brenda was a giver and a creative soul, especially when it came to sewing. She crafted extravagant quilts, baby blankets, Halloween bags for every child she knew, and anything else that was requested. She never turned away from a challenge, and found immense joy in gifting handmade pieces that were infused with love.
Brenda touched so many hearts, and so many will feel this loss. She will always be remembered for the amazing woman she was. Her strength will carry on in everyone she touched as they navigate this loss. Brenda is survived by her loving husband Perry; her son Josh (Emily), her daughters Joelle (Jono), Jennah (Dallas), and Jelayne; as well as her beloved grandchildren Dylan, Linken, Fallon, Reese, Tucker, Marlowe, and Miller. She is also remembered by her massive family of Dubielews, Stouts, Craigs, and Lethbridges; along with her many friends and those who considered her a second mom. Brenda was predeceased by her parents.
With respect for Brenda’s wishes, no formal funeral service will be held. A gathering of family and friends to celebrate her life will take place in the summer of 2025. She will be laid to rest with her mom and dad in the Iola Fairview Cemetery, Bluffton at a later date. Brenda had a deep love for baseball and basketball, and was a star in both sports. To honour her memory, the family would greatly appreciate memorial donations made directly to the Rimbey/Bluffton Minor Ball Association, by mail to: Box 167, Rimbey, Alberta T0C 2J0; or by e-transfer to: treasurer@rimbeyblufftonminorball.com. Thoughts and messages to the family may be shared through the condolence area located at the bottom of this page.
“As the seasons change, we learn it’s okay to let go of things we thought would be forever. Nature shows us that in life there is death and rebirth; that there are seasons of darkness and light. As we settle into a season of darkness, we know there will be light one day again. Healing comes as we sit in the darkness; and as the light shines to bring the flowers back in the spring, the light of this beautiful woman will shine forever on all of us.”
The family would like to thank everyone for their incredible support. It has been overwhelming and heartwarming to see the love pouring in and the stories shared. The Dubielew Family is filled with gratitude for everyone standing by them during this difficult time. They know this is not a goodbye, but rather, “See you in the stars, in the moon, in the wind, in the earth, in dreams, beyond the rainbows, and when a Blue Jay lands on a branch to say hello.” As Brenda often said, “It’s going to be okay – just believe.”
Forever missed, loved, and never forgotten…
Brenda will live on in the love and memories shared by all who knew her.
Cremation Arrangements for the Late Brenda Lee Dubielew (née Craig) entrusted to the care of
Heaven got a good angel!! 😇 God has many rooms in heaven.
Jo Jo Millar & Dino Vig
Our condolences to Brenda's friends and family. She will be missed. Bruce & Sheryl